Deciding When to Meet
It's wise to get to know someone online before meeting. Consider these signs that you're ready:
- Consistent, engaging conversation over several days
- Successful video chat verification
- No major red flags or suspicious behavior
- Mutual comfort and enthusiasm about meeting
Before the Date: Preparation Checklist
- Share your plans: Tell a friend where you're going and with whom
- Choose a public venue: First meetings should be in busy, well-lit locations
- Arrange your own transportation: Maintain independence for getting there and back
- Keep it casual: Suggest coffee or a brief activity rather than a lengthy dinner
- Stay sober: Limit alcohol to stay alert and make clear decisions
Safety tip: Use the "Find My Friends" app or similar to share your real-time location with someone you trust.
During the Meeting
While meeting:
- Keep your phone accessible but not obstructive
- Observe their behavior—do they match their online persona?
- Trust your intuition; if something feels off, you can leave politely
- Stay in public areas throughout the date
After the Date
When the date ends:
- Send a quick message to your contact person letting them know you're home safely
- Reflect on the experience and your comfort level
- Block or report on Meet Today if anything made you uncomfortable
Red Flags During In-Person Meetings
End the date immediately and leave if you notice:
- Disrespectful or aggressive behavior
- Pressuring you to go somewhere private
- Excessive drinking or drug use
- Any form of harassment or unwanted advances